People normally judge others without knowing the reasons behind their actions. Why? It’s normal mentality of human being to judge others and make their opinions about them. Because it is easy to comment on others, what it will take to make a comment about or on others…..nothing right!
But, we must be cautious before making any opinion or comment about others, that’s not in our boundary. That is the boundary of that other person, individually. It is his right to make his own decisions or choices based on his will. Who the hell you are to make any opinion or comment on the other person’s action or choices.
We must come out of this narrow mentality behavior of ours. We must be live freely and let other also live their life freely. Every individual have his own reasons behind his action or inaction. So, don’t judge him before knowing his reasons.
We all live in a society that has become very judgmental. Everyone seems to think that what everyone else is doing is somehow their business as well, and wants to know what everyone else is doing, comment on the situation, and judge their actions. We think that it is our right to know what other’s are doing and we have a right to make comment on that. This society seems almost obsessed with how other people live their lives. In fact, they seem to spend much more time critiquing other people’s lives than they do improving their own life. People forgetting their personal life and wasting a lot of time in observing other people life and interfering in their life.
We have a very limited asset – TIME on this planet earth. So, instead of worrying about the choices that other people make, focus on your own choices, your own actions, your own life. Spend your time making your life the best that it can be (Example- Reading good books, writing good stuff, travelling the world, meeting good people) instead of spending your time gossiping and tearing down others. Live YOUR life, not everyone else’s life. Stop being externally judgmental and start being internally aware of your own life. Before knowing other, we must know our-self. Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to judge the actions of others. I don’t have time to waste on other people, i am too much busy in my life, in my stuff, and it should be like this only. Consume all the limited time you have. Don’t waste it.
Stop judging other’s, that’s not your job!
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